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A time-traveling birthday blob's ramblings...
A retrospective of 31, as I enter 32.
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Why are Queer Tears Not Enough?
Caring about Queer Tears: A Carer Mentor & QStack Collaboration
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Carer Mentor Collaboration: my cup overfloweth with my tears
life is hard, ok? all i want to do is crawl into a hole and never come out, but here i am! shouting into the abyss!
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on a decade with my spouse, in short
Maybe one day I’ll document our love story in greater detail.
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on brevity, bravery & bards
what I’ve learned from poets and how to apply these to my relationships
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August 2024

I’m terrible at titling things, so hopefully this titillates you? 🤡
Hi friends,
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capitalist crushes no. 1: my brain is fried
so here are a bunch of things that have helped me pull thru during this time!!!
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From the Archives: congratulations, you're dying
I mean everyone is slowly, and sure, it feels worse when you're hurting, but congratulations: you're still alive. (or: more meditations on loneliness…
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From the Archives: intimacy & time 🕰️
the intersection of both as a form of relational healing
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I Outed Myself on Facebook... and Now I'm in Hawaii! 🌴
on a magical journey: no new essays till mid-august 🌞
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July 2024

From Heartbreak to Healing
Embracing Loss, Love, and Unconventional Joy 🌿💔✨
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💔❤️ christa’s crazy august: catch me in indy with 10% off! 🍀
poly poly oxen free + loving without boundaries + vast chasm 🚀✨
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